Neglected?

I’m feeling a bit neglected. For the past two nights, I’ve been trying to get sex from Hubby and he’s turned me down. Does he only want afternoon sex? Does he think that Little One will come walking out of his bedroom and interupt us again? He’s been trying to get over this sickness he’s had for almost a month and when we have afternoon sex he seems to be drained the whole day….Never thought I’d wear him out that much, I’m doing most of the work. I cook, I clean, I take care of our son, I take care of Hubby, I do everything around here.

Is it wrong for me to feel so neglected when I do have sex every couple of days? I wasn’t like this before, we could go a week without having sex and I wouldn’t care. But now, my sex drive is back and I want to keep it that way. I bought a clone a willy kit last month and it just came in the mail last week, I’ve been dying to make it and try it out but it’s still in the package because he doesn’t ever feel like doing it. Although he talks about how hot it would be for us to use it during sex.

Why do I feel so neglected? It’s nothing bad to go without sex for a few days. I understand that. But what bugs me the most is when I offer to hop in the shower with him, he says “it’s up to you” or if I offer to give him a massage he says “only if you want to”. Is it so wrong to want yes or no answers? GRRR sexual frustration!